wowww, blogger has a new posting format. so coolio now.

haha and i should prob not be blogging in the midst of exams!

but this place is practically like a dumping ground for thoughts, and im scared i'll forget!

and i shouldnt be reading abt dance stuff, but i couldnt resist of course. so here's some stuff i found on various websites!

some things about dance partnerships

1. For serious competitors, a dance partnership can be just as sensitive and personal as a minor marriage.

okay, i kinda balked when i saw this! MINOR MARRIAGE?!?!?! what on earth is a minor marriage?! GOSH!!! i hope that if i ever get married, it will be a major marriage? hahah, not just major, but singular! hahaha

2. One of the most essential traits about a good partnership is that you honestly respect and admire the way the other person dances. You must honestly like their style. You like their sex appeal, their timing, and feel in your heart, that they're very, very good. You would be amazed at how much more fun and creative you both can be when you respect and enjoy each other's dance style.

i think this is reallllly true, which might be a reason for my currently very unsuccessful stagnant partnership. i've don't enjoy his dancing anymore, and i find a lot of problems with it, and probably, he finds lots of problems with me too.
which is why we, or at least, I am unhappy.





on a side note, this totally applies to relationships.


3. The break-up of a dance partnership can be very emotional, depending on the degree ofcommitment and time invested. As stated earlier, when hopes, dreams, emotions with a significant amount of time and money are invested toward a goal, one or both partners can be heartbroken.This might be difficult for a non-dancer or a non-competitor to understand, and even confusing for the person experiencing the emotions. But the loss of a dance partnership brings about similar emotions, especially if one of the partners has already moved on to a new partner.


sigh. so i dont want to create unnecessary drama for my now happy life. but im still quite unhappy with the dancing.


its not that i think im better than him in any way... its just that i am beginning to feel that my frame is too big for him.

his waist is seriously too small, that sometimes it can't support my weight very well. which is why we always have probs with stunts.

and that's what the teacher said too.



but i shall think about this again another time. STUDYYYYY love <3




oh and if anyone is keen to read the full article, it's here!

http://www.salsastories.com/stories_c-d/competitors_only.htm

it even has a section discussing whether u should sleep with ur partner, and how to handle jealousy. LOL. talk abt intense.