whilst i was thinking today, i decided that LDRs and heartbreak has one commonality.


it both involves wanting to be close to someone you cannot be close with.


though of course heartbreak is worse. the difference is that in heartbreak u cannot even express your feelings to the other person anymore. which is the real killer.

at least in LDRs, u share something and u can build on it.

easier said than done though. reports show that 70% of LDRs break up, and it is common for people in LDRs to suffer from mild depression as well as experience the following:

1. anxiety
2. anger
3. frustration
4. insecurity
5. hopelessness




simply put, it is very emotionally draining to have to be apart.


to be more positive, there are a few upsides though!



such as conflict avoidance because when a couple has so little time tgt, we dont want to waste it being grumpy, and of course when we're tgt, it should be amazing! (:





I CAN HARDLY WAIT THE TWO WEEKS TILL HE COMES BACK

>:[


everyday i mark another day off my calender. everyday i think about how it will be like to see him again, to be able to hold his hand.