i just had a really random thought.

i've never seen a male dancer date a non dancer before.

by male dancer, i don't mean any guy who dances a bit, i'm talking about the more serious dancers, who dance professionally or competitively or at least very seriously and regularly la. haha

for girls, it's still quite common to see them date guys who don't dance at all, but i really haven't seen a serious guy dancer date non dancers before

WHY? hahaha

wah, if i was a sociology major, i would totally do a research thesis on this!! haha

i think it's still all back to gender roles. dancing, no matter how much we raise awareness for it, is still considered a mainly girly interest.

and so non dancer guys can understand why girls would want to pursue it, and would still consider them as potential girlfriends or whatever.

poor guys however, cos non dancer girls might feel it's weird for a guy to dance, and be more flexible than them or something, so this might deter them from dating the dancer guys.

of course, dancer guys are always popular amongst dancer girls, cos it's a 2-in-1 eh (: if he becomes your boyfriend, he almost always auto becomes your partner as well (: package deal. hahah, and i guess, if the guy is a good dancer, the girl dancer can appreciate his lines, and the grace of his movements and know how tough it is, so she won't think he's weird or something.



we need to raise awareness for our dancer guy friends!!! (: they're cool!!! (:

and they're so strong, so if you marry them, you can take very coolio wedding photos of them carrying and lifting you or whatever you want. (: hahah